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title: "Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving A Relationship with a Narcissist Hardcover – November 24, 2015"
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# Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving A Relationship with a Narcissist Hardcover – November 24, 2015

**Brand:** ramani durvasula ph.d.
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## Customer Reviews

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ 5.0 out of 5 stars







  
  
    Dr Ramani is on point!
  

*by T***♡ on Reviewed in the United States on April 30, 2024*

This book is incredible and the research and time that went into piecing all of this info together is truly an accomplishment. To finally make narc behavior easy to recognise has already started saving me many painful interactions bc I now know this is a sickness on their part and to not engage with it. This book also gave me a huge benefit in finding peace with all the turmoil my narc had caused. My favorite part that helped me the most was this quiz thing in there to better guage just how narky a narc may be… mine got a very very very high score… and so anyway… like Dr Ramani's recent book "It's Not You", this book helps ya understand the details of that. It's well written and an easy read, but emotionally, for me anyway, it was a hard read just bc I had to finally face the truth and stop making excuses for my loved one's behavior. Definitely caused a lot of childhood flashbacks even tho it's written more for romantic or business relations, so be ready to possibly have old memories re-surface. But, it's a healing journey and I feel like after this book as tho a huge heavy burden has been removed from me. As tho now all the confusion and pain has lifted and disappeared. It took time, but understanding it made it easier to set the pain down and say, "I don't need you anymore. I now know the truth." And then just keep it movin. Binge watching Dr R's YouTube channel helps a lot in the healing process too. Just to have that voice of sanity keeping you from running back into the same old problems.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ 5.0 out of 5 stars







  
  
    Life changing advice and eye opening information.
  

*by C***S on Reviewed in the United States on February 16, 2024*

I’m serious. If you find yourself in toxic patterns, feeling like you’re not enough in a relationship despite everything you do to make it better or right, feeling confused or disheartened, or repeating the same patterns over and over in relationships that suck the life out of you and end poorly this book is for you. It might explain what you are going through and how to cope, and it offers good advice beyond “just leave them!” because realistically not everyone can do that easily.I think the book, though not intended as such, can help see family dynamics that led to ending up in these relationships. What you grew up in might be what you are replicating.Anyway. Well written, deep, thoughtful, and thought provoking. Even if you are not in these sort of relationships it can help understand a friend, a family member, or a loved one that is and how to interact with them and their situation.Highly recommended, Dr. Ramani is a wealth of knowledge.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ 5.0 out of 5 stars







  
  
    A beacon of hope
  

*by S***B on Reviewed in the United States on April 25, 2019*

If you're in the mist, fumbling to find why your partner is on and off, hot and cold, close and distanced, this book will help. It's lengthy contextual explanations take the reader by the hand in a living way to exhibit some of the most difficult definitions you will read. Not difficult intellectually, but you may get ready upon realising how they apply to your life.If you've left, you're going to find clarity here, and encouragement. Reading this will dredge up all sorts of memories you forgot you had, whether about a bad relationship, or from childhood.I have read many books about narcissism, and raising children, this one really brings all of the others together for me, and I'd like a lens, focusing all of the parts at once. Had I not read all the other material the book may not have had the emotional impact it did, but the information which is so wonderfully explained and lovingly presented, will help you see your own value.The reading of the audio book is good. However, the recording is more quiet than it should be, and many times sentences have been re-recorded and dropped in, sometimes mid-paragraph: no effort for a consistent room sound or distance from the mic has been made. This does not detract from the message.The book may appear to be about narcissism, but it is very much directed at, and focused on helping the reader to love themselves, and to relearn self care, in the face of, or the recovery from being with a narcissistic partner.Whether you are a survivor wanting to avoid picking another narcissistic partner, or you're a friend or family member wanting to understand and better-relate to a survivor - and what they have been through - this is an enlightening and vulnerability-creating read.

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