Win Your Breakup: How to Be the One That Got Away

I am halfway through this book and at first I thought it was just going to be another self-help book that would be generic. But I am happy to say I was completely WRONG! I like many other people whom have left comments, thank you to them by the way, have been also highlighting and writing notes and examples that are totally relatable to my previous relationship. It's like this book speaks to me OUTLOUD and paints the exact same picture "almost" of me and my previous partner. And there is a new awareness and accountability I have taken in my patterns and actions in the relationship and with my self as well. A quote that stood out to me that I know I will always remember because it stuck was " Actions speak louder than words, but PATTERNS speak louder then Actions". I will definitely be rereading this book in the near future am sure I'll gain a different perspective. Love it! Thank you to the author for sharing her experiences and wise words

Wow! This book is extremely life changing. Currently going through a breakup and this made me see myself in a positive self worthy light more than ever. Realizing my intuition is something to never question. And to stop trying to explain what should be common sense to someone else. I took so many notes and will save this for a friend in need. While reading this I cried, laughed, agreed, felt angry, and just a mix of emotions that were OKAY to feel. Very empowering and Def a book everyone needs to read.

I devoured this book after ending a three-year relationship with my narcissistic and alcoholic ex. It baffled me that I fell in love with him in the first place and why I couldn’t let him go. Why was I holding on to someone who disrespected and betrayed me so much? This book demystified it all for me and gave me the self-love and strength I needed to put an end to my needless suffering and walk away for good. It taught me why toxic relationships are so addictive and helped me get through the hurt feelings and angst that some other woman was going to get a better version of him than I did. It helped me find myself and my confidence again. I now look at my mental healthy, my peace, and my overall quality life as invaluable and worthy of protection. I couldn’t stop highlight and asterisking paragraph after paragraph, there are soooo many gems of wisdom in this book, it’s going to take more than one reading to fully absorb them. Thank you, Natasha!

If you are going through a breakup (divorce for me) you have to pick up this book! It's so enlightening and really puts things into perspective!

After a very dark moment in my life, I picked up this book which completely changed my mind set and approach not only with respect to a breakup but also with respect to toxic personalities, yes, including toxic behaviors of my own. I was really drawn by the authenticity of the narrative, the down to earth and practical concepts. If you came across this book you are probably struggling with a breakup and I want to share my experience with you: It changed me and got me out the hole. I found myself highlighting many passages of the book and after I finished it, I realized I had highlighted more than 50% of the paragraphs.

i’m beyond thankful that i came across this book. it made me snap out of it, and realize my worth. it took me 2 days to read this entire book, and i couldnt put it down once i started. i feel much better after reading this because it made me realize so much.to anyone who is struggling to leave a toxic partner, please read this book. i promise you wont regret it!!

Motivating book. Definitely for those who may be struggling navigating life after being in a toxic relationship.

This is beyond the realm of "self-help" post break up in my opinion. Natasha Adamo goes above and beyond to explain why and how to regain your respect when you hit the lowest of lows and feel nothing but desperation and despair when the person you thought loved you the most, betrays you. I was lucky enough to be a client of Natasha's a few years ago, when I hit bottom and had no self respect and just so desperately wanted to be loved by a person who did not love or care about me in return. I was willing to cling onto anything and that turned me into an obsessive, desperate, heart broken, shell of a girl. I knew it was not who I wanted to be.... and I somehow someway found Natasha. I think I was googling advice honestly when I stumbled upon her blog, because I had basically lost every friend I had due to my obsession with being with this terribly toxic person, none of my friends wanted to listen to me anymore (which is totally fair). I am three years past that toxic relationship, and I can truly say I love my life. I do still occasionally struggle with self-esteem and self-worth but I bounce back fast thanks to Natasha. She highlights how you're going to make mistakes in this book, but ultimately you are going to change for the better. Now my life is way beyond what I could've ever imagined it to be 3 years ago as that heart broken girl. and I owe Natasha a huge thank you for her help with that. Reading this book (yes I read it all in 24 hours) I was taken back to that place of pain and was reminded of how much I have grown and how much meaning was in that pain in retrospect now. Natasha is a god send, and I can promise when you read this book this is 10000% her. She truly poured her whole heart and soul into this book and I can tell because it is the same time tested, genuine, emphatic, no nonsense (yet evolved) advice and lessons she taught me so long ago. If you feel like you have lost all respect for yourself in your relationship or you have hit rock bottom, please pick up this book. You will change your perspective and find strategies to put in the work you need to to change.

At present I'm divorcing my husband of 38 years marriage and we were together for 42 years in total. I found he's been cheating for the last two years, and I'm so distraught as to why he would do this after all this time. I was so desperate to have him back and forgive him but he was rejecting me !! The cheek !! I've bought so many self help books but still feeling no better, just desperate to have our life back together. I came across this book and read it over night, I couldn't put it down and I am feeling so much better and stronger. I can't wait to be the success of this breakup. The advice is so compelling and makes so much sense you wonder how you never thought of it yourself. Thank you Natasha x

La escritora no es mi estilo de libro

Alcuni punti li ho trovati veramente buoni, però alla fine troppo ripetitivo e lungo. Alcuni ragionamenti li ho trovati troppo negativi

I discovered Natasha Adamo's blog several years ago and was thrilled to see she has now written a book. Natasha's advice helped me open my eyes to my own worth, and her advice can be related to all types of relationships in life. Choosing our own inner peace and knowing our worth is not always easily done, and this book helps guide the reader towards a new life of owning boundaries and showing ourselves the respect we deserve. The book is written beautifully and anyone and everyone, regardless of gender or sexual orientation will be able to relate. Absolute must read!!!

I didn’t know what to really expect from this when I downloaded it, but talk about exceeding all expectations!It’s not about being vindictive or spiteful, it’s about loving yourself and forgiving yourself.It’s written clearly and to the point and not like other “self help” books that make you do all these exercises etc. Natasha says it like it is.I hadn’t even gotten to the end and I was recommending it. Worth the read (or listen).