Fifty Shades of GreyInner Goddess Ben Wa Balls

I have read about Ben Wa balls and figured I'd try some for toning. What woman doesn't want to feel like she's in perfect control of that region? I thought it might spice things up for my my honey and me, and give an inner work out. I am not a Fifty Shades fan and chose these because they were the best I'd found for the price that were metal, attached to a string (kind of scared me to just start shoving loose balls up there without them being leashed! Hah!). Plus they are weighted, and claimed to be a "challenge". I've been using them consistently for a week. Going by the description, I was expecting to use them laying down, and practice with brief intervals standing, walking, bending... And eventually (hopefully) squatting and maybe while doing yoga.When they arrived, I was surprised at just how heavy they are. It was almost intimidating - but it's supposed to be challenging, right? I put them in... Expecting to have to clench... And they just stayed in. I wore them for a couple hours, practicing all of the above activities/posistions. I don't know if I'm just better toned than I thought I was, but I don't see the challenge here. They fit snugly and go in deeply. And, unless you really try and push them out. They're not going anywhere!I was anticipating having to consciously kegal to hold them in. To constantly be working those inner muscles to keep them from slipping. Honestly, I could wear them all day and barely even notice they're there. Kind of comparable to a more.. Interesting feeling, weighted tampon. I don't find them at all uncomfortable, but if you're purchasing for pleasure purposes I think you'd be disappointed. I don't personally get pleasure from them. Be careful when you remove them. I like the rubber material of the "string", and the way it has a lot of stretch - feels well made and it cleans up nicely, but the elasticity makes it tricky to pull out. The first time I removed them, I wasn't clenching but I wasn't pushing either, and I had to give a hard tug, and when the second one dislodged it kind of shot out with force. Now I squat and carefully pull out one at a time.So, for me it was worth the purchase just for the little boost of self esteem that I've got some good control "down there". But now I may be on the lookout for something a little smaller and maybe heavier to actually be a challenge. I don't fully agree that these are not for beginners. I've never used anything like them and I don't find them challenging at all. But overall, I'll continue to use them and for the price I don't regret the purchase.

I like this product because the balls are a nice size to use and easy to put in place. The packaging was great and it comes with a nice pretty silver bag you can store them in after opening them from the plastic they are stored in. The balls are a little heavy and you have to get use to holding them in. The more you use them, the more you get use to them as they do what the directions say it will do.

Bought the item, tried it as instructed. No where in the documentation is there any mention about allergies or potential Health related issues (other than leaving it inside too long).The metal...is a Chrome plating that is "mixed" with other chemicals or ad-on's and the middle is not pure steel. This needs to Hypo-allergenic items. I had it tested and it contains Nickel. Not a lot but enough to cause a rash.And of course, I cannot return it. My Bad on that one. No more purchases from Amazon with out the ability to return something, especially if it is a Health Issue.

We, my husband and I, waited for this item to arrive with expectations of adding another dimension to our already explorative and fulfilling intimate life. Neither of us have been disappointed.However, we have one rule...he is the only one who can insert them for me. I can not do it myself. Plus, we both enjoy him doing it.We were originally concerned about the cord because when we purchased the item it was indicated as a material not sanitary, but the change to rubber made us both feel better. It's worth the $$$

Very nice item. It comes boxed with a storage pouch, but threads come off so need to rinse off. These are not for beginners. If you're looking for a place to start, try Fifty Shades Beyond Aroused.

These balls might be good for kegel exercises, but that is not what they are advertised for and the Lelo Egg would be a better choice for that. The balls are bigger than those described in the book or used in the movie and too large to move around to provide "pleasure". I would have returned, but tried the product and had thrown out the outer package.

Wife enjoyed her new ben wa balls said she loved how they felt. This is her first time using them and was a challenge keeping them in, there supposed to be challenging. They never fell out. Wife said money well spent. Let me tell you I agree the s@@ was super intense. Advice remove the pull tab it's really big and will just be in the way. Can't wait to do it all over again. These are silicone, not nylon and easy to wash.