The 5 Apology Languages: The Secret to Healthy Relationships Paperback – January 4, 2022

Is an amazing book. It has helped my relationship with my wonderful husband on many accounts. This book has brought us closer together as a couple!

This was a really good book! It was easy to read and didn't spend much time rambling just to hit a higher word count. There were a lot of extremely helpful insights and it helped me realize what I already do well and where I need to make improvements in my apologies. I had never thought of the fact that people have different apology languages, but it seems pretty obvious in retrospect!The only downsides to the book are more a matter of preference. I'm not a Christian, but I think most of the arguments would have been just as powerful in a completely secular context. The only argument that hinged on Christianity is the idea that we are not obligated to forgive someone who does not apologize.Lastly, if you're learning to apologize so that you can get back in the good graces of someone that you wronged, be aware that she needs to be able to accept the apology and forgive you. Just because you apologize doesn't mean she'll take you back. Although it's worth a shot because she's amazing and I love her.

Anyone who experiences conflict should read this book… so everyone! Offer practical advice and allows you to look at things through a different lens

I was so blessed that I was able to learn so much about something I thought I totally understood. This book approaches apology from every direction, not only the apology to others, but accepting the ones given to you and the one you could or should give to yourself. It was eye opening to learn the differences of apology languages and discovering my own. It was a blessing and quite insightful and thought provoking. Thank you!

Dr Gary Chapman really strikes gold with his insight. This book really opened my eyes to how different we all are in so many ways but at the same time with sensitivity and awareness of each other's needs how much we can improve our relationships relatively quickly.

This book gave me a lot to think about, and I saw some areas where I have lacked understanding. I see, also, that I need to learn my husband's apology language, so that we can resolve our conflicts in more satisfying ways. There were some areas where I disagreed with the authors, but they certainly caused me to think about the ways I handle conflict. I recommend this book to everyone, from teens to grandparents, who want healthier, happier, more satisfying relationships.

I never thought before that the way someone asks for forgiveness can lead (or not) to reconciliation. A must read for families and church groups (and anyone, really.) Very quick to read and would be a good base for a group discussion.

love this book. a little hard to get through the beginning but i do love the knowledge in here and it has definitely helped me already be able to verbalize what i’m feeling better and given me insight on the value and weight of a true apology